musical notation

Do we actually have anything resembling a decent graphical music notation editor? Specifically, I'm looking for an application with the following features:
  • It should not hog my CPU, and if it creates some Lilypond output, that had better be syntactically correct (so, not rosegarden4)
  • It should not be horribly outdated (so, not rosegarden2.1)
  • It should not dump core when opening anything else than its native format (so, not denemo)
  • It should give me a path to its native format from the .mid file I have here (so, not noteedit)
  • It should have the ability to display notes, instead of just being a sequencer (so, not brahms)
  • And, last but not least: it should allow me to convert my .mid file into a conductor's score (which actually rules them all out, unless I didn't look too careful) so that I can edit it.That would be nice.
Yes, I know about lilypond. It works, but it's not really ideal to do some music editing in. I'm almost considering going back to Finale. It's horribly non-free (which is why I won't do it), but at least it works. Any better suggestions?